Apparently I need to exercise to lose weight. Go figure. I had an OK eating week last week which is probably why I didn’t gain, but it seems I won’t lose if I’m not walking either. I was sick. Give me a break!
For those of you that don’t know, tomorrow our baby would have been born. It’s also Rudi’s birthday tomorrow. Not only that, two people that were pregnant along with me and due in early April are both giving birth tomorrow. It feels like everyone except me is having their baby tomorrow. FFS. Could they not have waited till next week? Or even Thursday? I suppose I cannot blame them. Babies come when they are ready. Although, both births are planned C-sections. There is also a good chance that our baby could have been with us already (estimated due dates are exactly that, estimations)…but that is something we will never know.
I took leave for Wednesday, anticipating it will be a difficult day for me, but I didn’t realize that I would break down on Monday already. I sat crying at my desk yesterday until I finally decided to go home. Jubba and his line manager told me I could take time if I needed it and I need time now.
Wednesday is the last big day. The last chapter in the events that would have led to us having a baby. Rudi told me the other day he wants to celebrate James’ birthday in some way each year. He also told me last year that we could celebrate Mother’s Day and Father’s Day, even though we don’t have a living baby. I suppose those days could be hard for me too, but luckily they occur on a weekend.
I’m at home again today. I didn’t see the point of going into the office, just to have to come home again.
Rudi doesn’t understand why I am still upset. Yesterday when he picked me up from work he said ‘But his soul is with God now, why are you still sad?’. Men don’t really get it, do they?
I have to pick myself up after this. I can’t be stuck in this dark cloud forever.
By the way, the number I had for my father was a number for a company. My grandfather called them yesterday and they don’t know who he is. I guess this journey continues.