Day 04 → Something you have to forgive someone for.

This is tough. I don’t think I’ve left anyone unforgiven. I don’t forget how people have hurt me and I will probably never trust you again, but you’re forgiven. Is that how it works though? Have you really forgiven if you haven’t forgotten? People seem to think that you have to do both to have truly forgiven.


I have forgiven My Evil Mother for what she did to me. I even forgave the person that abused me as a child. I’ve forgiven three of my high school friends for dating people I loved after we broke up. I forgive Rudi on a daily basis :P Don’t get me wrong, forgiveness doesn’t come easily to me and sometimes it takes me a very long time for me to get to the point where I feel like I’ve forgiven a person for what they’ve done.


At the moment I don’t feel like I need to forgive anyone for anything. Don’t you be the person to ruin that now, okay?

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3 Responses to “Day 04 → Something you have to forgive someone for.”

  1. Alida says:

    I feel the same. I’m always worried if I do the complete 100% forgiveness and forgetness thing I’m just going to end up getting hurt again.

  2. MeeA says:

    I have mixed feelings about the friends dating exes beef. Generally, I’m of the opinion that, once a relationship is over, the ex is fair game. That said, I think it’s exceptionally poor form to date a friend’s ex, especially when you know that your friend isn’t over the break-up…
    As luck would have it, I played Cupid between my ex and my best friend backin our second year at varsity and they are now married!

  3. Angel says:

    Teehee… I’m with you on not forgetting completely…

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