The last week
So the last week of my maternity leave begins. I have a sore throat, I suspect a throat infection and I’m going to the doctor just now. I’m going to sit down with him and tell him “I’m here for antibiotics and decent painkillers”. I’m hoping that I can get my birth control from my doctor too, instead of going to the clinic on Wednesday. The last thing we need right now is another birth ![]()
Babyice has been a bit sick. He had quite a cough, but the pediatrician said it was probably a post nasal drip and that we should treat his nose with saline solution, which we were already doing. Then his one eye starting weeping and was very gunky when he woke up from a nap or in the mornings. Yesterday we got an ointment for his eye and we are treating it. Poor baba. Luckily he hasn’t developed a fever. I don’t think a visit to the doctor is warranted at the moment. He has probably picked up something from going to the day mother. It’s very cold early in the morning when he is taken and he is surrounded by other kids too. The day mother says sometimes their eyes get gunky like that when they teethe as well.
We fed him some Purity Night Time porridge (with vanilla and maize) last night for the first time. It’s a “Stage 2″ food which means it is more textured than the solids he has been eating. It also didn’t smell/taste as nice as the porridge he has been eating (yes, we tasted). We thought he would be hesitant or reject the feed at first, but he was like a guppy fish opening his mouth for more from the first bite. He slept okay last night, woke up once for his dummy around 22:30 (he has made a habit of this) and only woke up again for a feed at 04:30.
On the other hand I woke up for no reason at 3:00 and could not for the life of me get back to sleep. I tried to go back to sleep after Rudi and Babyice left this morning, to no avail. My grandfather called me and said he *neeeded* me at his house (read: he is depressed and wants me to come and cheer him up). So I had to get out of bed, shower, wash my hair, put washing on, wash and sterilise bottles and get the washing in the tumble dryer before I could go to them. I’m so tired, but for some reason I can’t sleep at my grandparents house. The phones are constantly ringing or there are constantly people talking. It’s hard.
Hopefully I get some good meds to take that will sort me out quickly. I’m so looking forward to Angel and Glugster‘s wedding on Saturday. Rudi is excited too. He gets to fly on a plane for the first time and he’ll get to see his cousin that he hasn’t seen for many, many years (she is picking us up from the airport). I’ve decided to focus on Saturday’s wedding instead of going back to work on Monday. Much better!
Despite needing to rest I have a busy week ahead. On Wednesday I’m taking Rudi to work so I can go to the dentist and have my eyebrows done. Sarah is coming over during the week to come and dye my hair. Kambabe is also coming through this week since she will be staying at our house to look after Babyice while we are in Johannesburg…and of course we’re flying up to Johannesburg on Saturday morning. Rush – rush. We’ll barely be home on Sunday evening before we put Babyice to bed and next thing you know I’m back at work. MEH.

Hope you are feeling better soon, sounds like you have a busy week planned.
Babies eyes get gunky when they have a snotty nose – because everything is to closely connected and their face (and the tubes) so small sometimes the mucous from the nose is pushed out of the tear ducts (yucky but quite normal). It can happen up to about 3 years old. Hope his cough clears up. Tissue salts worked really well for my two (no. 5 Kali Mur is for Mucous decongestion)
I hope you feel all better soon (both of you
I hope you are both better soon. xxx
Enjoy your trip and since when do dentist do brows? See you next week.
If the gooey eye started after he was last seen by the pead, I would take him back. Conjunctivitis on top of other symptoms is usually a secondary infection which indicates that the body’s immune system is weakened from fighting off the first infection (and that it is not winning!) and he may need anti-biotics.
Hope you’re feeling better soon!
Are you feeling better? Are the brows looking fabulous? I coloured away my grey last night so I am a little happier now.
I am very much looking forward to seeing you on Saturday!
Hi,
Poor you! Hope you both get better soon. Waking up in the early hours of the morning (& not being able to get back to sleep after that) can be an early sign of depression? or it could just be the anxiety of knowing you have to go back to work. Sucks.
D.
I don’t think it’s depression, I feel fine otherwise. Not sure what it is. Will gauge how it is now that I’m back at work