http://www.acidicice.co.za/2008/11/jamessebastian/ Just another WordPress weblog Mon, 06 Sep 2010 11:22:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://www.acidicice.co.za/2008/11/jamessebastian/comment-page-1/#comment-1769 acidicice » Sick, sad and broke Wed, 04 Nov 2009 09:39:39 +0000 http://www.acidicice.co.za/?p=192#comment-1769 [...] tomorrow it will be a year since this happened. I had a hard time deciding what I wanted to do for Jamie’s birthday. I did not want [...] [...] tomorrow it will be a year since this happened. I had a hard time deciding what I wanted to do for Jamie’s birthday. I did not want [...]

]]> http://www.acidicice.co.za/2008/11/jamessebastian/comment-page-1/#comment-655 zola237 Fri, 07 Nov 2008 11:24:00 +0000 http://www.acidicice.co.za/?p=192#comment-655 I am sorry to read what you had to go through. I hope that you take the time to grieve and God will get you through this. I am sorry to read what you had to go through. I hope that you take the time to grieve and God will get you through this.

]]> http://www.acidicice.co.za/2008/11/jamessebastian/comment-page-1/#comment-656 Jetsetter Thu, 06 Nov 2008 16:49:00 +0000 http://www.acidicice.co.za/?p=192#comment-656 Do not feel bad about crying is what I meant to write.<br />xx Do not feel bad about crying is what I meant to write.xx

]]> http://www.acidicice.co.za/2008/11/jamessebastian/comment-page-1/#comment-657 Jetsetter Thu, 06 Nov 2008 16:47:00 +0000 http://www.acidicice.co.za/?p=192#comment-657 Hello<br /><br />I am really really sorry to hear what you went through, it sounded horrible. <br />I thought you must have had to have the baby. I hope that you are feeling better now, and take the time to grieve and heal. <br />The baby seemed to have too many defects and you did make the right decision, James/Sebastian, is better now and at peace.<br />25% possibility of defect is high, but that is still a 75% possibility that your next baby will be healthy and fine.<br />If you try again, save up so that you can have some extra scans done earlier. It is devastating to have such bad news and for your little boy to have been so badly formed.<br />I am hoping that it was a unique case and next time you will have the healthy little girl you wanted.<br />I do not think a post mortem would have helped you either. Better to let your little boy rest in peace.<br /><br />Whatever your mother did is obviously inappropriate and very insensitive. <br /><br />Rest now and recover, the worst of the ordeal is over. Take the time to cry and do not feel about it, you have the right to grieve.<br /><br />All my love<br /><br />Jetsetter (your babycenter friend)<br />xxxx HelloI am really really sorry to hear what you went through, it sounded horrible. I thought you must have had to have the baby. I hope that you are feeling better now, and take the time to grieve and heal. The baby seemed to have too many defects and you did make the right decision, James/Sebastian, is better now and at peace.25% possibility of defect is high, but that is still a 75% possibility that your next baby will be healthy and fine.If you try again, save up so that you can have some extra scans done earlier. It is devastating to have such bad news and for your little boy to have been so badly formed.I am hoping that it was a unique case and next time you will have the healthy little girl you wanted.I do not think a post mortem would have helped you either. Better to let your little boy rest in peace.Whatever your mother did is obviously inappropriate and very insensitive. Rest now and recover, the worst of the ordeal is over. Take the time to cry and do not feel about it, you have the right to grieve.All my loveJetsetter (your babycenter friend)xxxx

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